First up, when it comes to dildos, size does indeed matter. Make sure you get the size that best suits your needs. When it comes to pleasure, there are many shapes and sizes available; from small and thin, to long and bulbous. Start slow and work your way up when it comes to the size, and don’t go big if that’s not your thing.
Second, don’t forget about the lube! Using lubricant can really help you to enjoy your dildo play more, and it can help to avoid that burning sensation that can come from friction. I recommend something water-based – it’s the best in my experience.
Next, set the mood. Take some time to make sure you’re comfortable and relaxed. Light some candles, turn up the lights, put on some sultry music – make sure your environment is one that helps you feel safe and cozy. That’s going to be key to your experience.
The fourth point is to go slow and build up. No need to go full throttle with the first ‘session’ – if you’re new to this, it can feel overwhelming and just downright uncomfortable. Start slow, explore, and work up to more and faster motions that come with the more rounded ends of the dildo.
The fifth and very important tip is communication. If you have a partner, make sure you communicate with each other and check in. In the heat of the moment it’s easy to go too hard and that’s not what we want.
Finally, last but not least, don’t forget to acknowledge how great you feel after. Acknowledge to yourself the pleasure you’ve had and the hard work you put into making sure that pleasure was comfortable and enjoyable. Rewarding yourself with loving words makes it more likely you’ll repeat the same action!
There you have it. Using a dildo doesn’t have to be painful if you take caution. With some prep work, patience, lube, and the right environment, you can be sure to get the most pleasure out of your time.
Expanding on this topic, when it comes to dildo play, there are a few important safety tips to keep in mind. Make sure you are not putting yourself at risk of sexually transmitted infections by using it with different partners. Always wear a condom when using a dildo with different partners and make sure to clean it with soap and hot water after every use.
Furthermore, it’s important to consider the material of the dildo. Different materials can impact the safety of using your dildo. Some materials that are incredibly porous can absorb bacteria, while silicone and glass tend to be the safest materials. Plus, don’t forget to store your dildo in a safe, clean place to prevent dirt and bacteria from getting onto it.
It’s also important to be aware of your body’s needs and boundaries. If using a dildo causes discomfort, pain, or isn’t enjoyable, stop using it immediately. Make sure to listen to your body and take breaks if needed. Some people like to take a break and change positions during use to prevent any issues from arising.
Your body needs some time to adjust and get used to the dildo. If you want to increase the intensity, start off slow and increase the speed gradually. Tease yourself and savor the sensations. Don’t rush your pleasure – learn your body by exploring with different speeds, pressures, and locations to find what works best for you.
For further enjoyment, add a bullet vibrator to your dildo. This can increase the sensation and pleasure exponentially! You can find bullet vibrators that can be used on your dildo to provide extra stimulation. Different vibrators come with various speeds and different sensations.
Lastly, be aware of reaching climax safely. While using a dildo can bring you extra pleasure, make sure not to overdo it in order to avoid pain and discomfort. If you’re going to push yourself to orgasm, have a plan to relax your body after. Make sure to listen to your body and take care of your body afterwards with a hot bath, sleep, or gentle stretching.
This information was really helpful and informative for using a dildo without it hurting. As someone who has used dildos before, I can attest that this knowledge can help ensure that your experience is a positive one. So experiment, explore, and above all, enjoy!