Storytelling is one of my favorite ways to bond with friends. So when one of my pals recently asked me about ‘daddy dick cum in sex doll gay’, I had to share my own story about it.

I’d heard about these kinds of devices before but was rather shocked that someone had decided to put a penis inside of one, let alone a “daddy” one. I mean, coined by these internet celebrities, ‘daddy’ isn’t even an acceptable term anymore in my book. Now it was everything from bizarre to even triggering to me, and yet, here it was.

When I mentioned it to my friends, some of them chuckled but I was rather taken aback by it. Sure, it could be quite funny at times, but why was this form of sexuality even deemed socially acceptable, yet still glorified? Even more so, why had no one figured out that it was potentially dangerous for those engaging in such activities?

It’s not like a real person can be replaced with a sex toy. Surely, various studies have shown that real-world intimacy between two people is far better than any virtual device. What’s more, those who use these types of devices are far more likely to experience shame and guilt as a result of these experiences than those who don’t.

This isn’t to say that everyone should be discouraged from using these types of devices. If two consenting adults decide to do something behind closed doors, then that’s nobody’s business. But it’s important to note that these kinds of activities pose risks that shouldn’t be taken lightly.

I don’t know what the future holds but I do know that it’s important to always be open and honest with yourself and those involved when it comes to these kind of sexual activities. We can never be too sure what might happen if we take risks in this domain.

Another issue related to this comes from the idea of virtual relationships. It’s easy to assume that two people can engage in a completely normal relationship while using this kind of device. But the truth is that real relationships require actual physical contact and emotion. Virtual relationships can never match up to the same level. People can use virtual reality to enhance their sexual experience but should never rely on it as the sole form of sexual contact.

Discussing with some of my peers, we all agreed that the use of pornography, virtual reality and similar devices should not be seen in a negative light. Everyone should be able to enjoy their sexuality in whatever way makes them feel the most comfortable. But we also need to be mindful that this kind of play has the potential to cause real harm to those who engage in it, emotionally or even physically.

We ought to strive to be more open and honest about these kinds of activities. We can take the opportunity to be educated and open conversations around it so that those involved can make more informed decisions about what they choose to do. In this day and age, information is the best defense we can have when it comes to sexual activities.

The impact of new age technology on today’s bedroom activities shouldn’t be taken lightly either. From virtual reality sex dolls to porn, we need to be aware that when we’re playing in this domain, it can have a much larger effect than we realize.

At the end of the day, no one should be judged for experimenting with their sexuality. But we should all take responsibility for understanding and being mindful of the potential risks that can come with it. We should never feel ashamed of our own desires and should always strive to make sure we’re both physically and sex toys emotionally safe when it comes to exploring our sexual activites.