As someone in the prime of my life, I’m pretty sure I know almost everything when it comes to masturbation. After all, it’s something many of us do on the regular and it’s one of the surest ways to satisfy yourself sexually. But, believe it or not, there are some steps that should be followed when it comes to male masturbation — steps that can maximize your pleasure and make it feel even more incredible. Now, these might not be the same for everyone, but this is generally the routine I follow every time I get really horny.
It all starts with setting the stage. Before you even begin with anything else, you should create a mood that fits the moment. Whether it’s dialing up the temperature in your bedroom, using some scented candles, or dimming the lights — do what you need to do to get your mind and body in the right frame of mind. This will not only make the actual act more enjoyable but also help you to relax.
Turning up the heat, as I like call it, is the next step. After you’ve done your best to a create a relaxed and sexy atmosphere, then you can move on to the more fun stuff. Start by indulging in some light touches; this can be around your body, your genitals, scalp, or anywhere else you want. Doing this will help to get your blood flowing and your body will naturally start to crave more.
Once you’re in a more aroused state, you can then start to increase the speed and intensity of your touch. For me, this usually translates to a bit of vigorous rubbing action. This will increase arousal, build up to a point of no return, and then really take it further into a whole new level of pleasure.
The fourth and final stage of masturbation is the climax. After you’ve done all of the steps above, you should be at a point where your body is begging for release. This is when you can take it to the next level and give yourself a chance to really let go. You might want to use a vibrator, incorporate some role play, or peak fantasy — anything that makes it feel even better.
Once you’re ready to take the plunge, the key to an awesome male masturbation experience is to recognize the power of your breath and make it work for you. Taking the time to breathe deeply and slowly will help you to relax and get into the perfect state of mind for reaping some serious satisfaction.
To top it all off, make sure the last few moments to enjoy the ride. Even when the sensation starts to subside, don’t be in a rush to get up and move on with your day. It’s important to savor that moment of bliss and really appreciate all the hard work you put in to get there. Gently pulling away and allowing yourself to bask in the afterglow is the perfect way to finish a session.
Another great thing is that the entire experience can be even further enhanced with the use of props and sex toys. There’s a huge array of sex toys designed specifically for guys and experimentation can sometimes lead to some beautiful results, or even new forms of pleasure that you never really knew existed.
But I’m not here to just talk about the technical stuff. To really get the most out of the experience, I encourage you to also let go of any thoughts and inhibitions that are preventing you from getting into the moment, and just feel the sensations and the pleasure. This is the kind of freedom and exploration that only masturbation can provide. Are you with me?